Can't. I hate that word.
It only exists to bring us down. Nothing is impossible. Not a single thing. Think of something crazy and out of the box. Has it been invented yet? Yes? Told you it was possible. Not yet? Find a way to do it! If you 'can't' find a way you'll just have to look harder. There's always a way. Who would have guessed that we could one day fly across the ocean in a matter of hours? Who would have guessed that we would ever have everything a computer, a phone and a pager have on one small device? Who would have guessed that we could ever live video chat with someone on the other side of the world? It's normal to us because we live in this generation. But how about 400 years ago? 1000 years ago? 3000 years ago? They would probably have put you in a dark room because they thought you were crazy. You can. You just have to believe in yourself. You can do everything you set your mind to. You have no idea how to cook but your biggest dream is to open a restaurant. Just because you 'can't' cook right now doesn't mean that you'll never be able to cook. You just have to set your mind to it. Make it happen. Can't = insecurity. Can't = not believing in yourself. Can't = not seeing your own ability to shape your life and yourself to what you want. What is it that you believe you can't do? Please let me know in the comments. What is it? Why do you believe that you can't do that? What makes you believe that you are not strong enough or smart enough (...) ? I know for a fact that you CAN. But you have to take a step back. Do you WANT to? Because that's where it happens. If you want to do something, with all of your heart, you will do everything to change that 'can't' into 'can'. It's all a matter of believing that you can. I know that there is nothing that I can't do. I keep saying that I want to lose weight and that I want to eat healthy but then I come up with excuses. 'But I like to bake.' 'I don't have time to go to the gym.' 'Eating healthy is expensive.' Imara, cut the crap. That's what I'm telling myself. I love to bake, sure. Just bake for somebody instead of yourself. I don't have much time to go the gym. But I can do squats and sit ups in my living room. Eating healthy is not that expensive if I'd leave the chocolate and the ice cream and the tiramisu at the store. You have to sacrifice. But I'm not really into that so I just don't. That doesn't mean that I can't lose weight. It means that I don't really want to lose weight. You can, stop saying that you can't because you can. Say that you don't want to. Say that you don't care about it. But be honest. Because you know what, you are lying to yourself and you deserve better! Talk to me in the comments or on instagram, twitter, facebook... send me an email... you know what to do. Have a good day, and clear your mind of can't!
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AuthorMy passion is writing. I started writing stories when I was only 6 years old and I still do it today. Blogging is something I've been wanting to do for a long time, so here we are. Archives
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