OK, so you started taking down bricks. Now what? That pile of bricks behind you is getting bigger and it's becoming a mess if you leave it there. In order to keep your walls down and keep that open view of what's ahead you need to get rid of those bricks. Look at the reasons and attack them. Find a way to get rid of the brick, the under laying problem. It might seem like I know exactly how to deal with it, but I'm still trying to figure out how to deal with every problem. I'm still trying and I think as long as you're trying and as long as you keep going, you will eventually make that pile become less and less and less.
Each problem needs to be attacked in its own way. You can't expect to use the same tactic on every enemy. It's not going to work. You need to try different ways to deal with it. Don't give up. It might seem like forever and it might seem to get harder and more difficult to deal with but you need to keep in mind that there's a sun hiding behind these clouds. No matter how dark it might get. The sun will always come out. I had times where it seemed like the sun had disappeared. I didn't think it would ever come back. I prayed to God to help me get out of that situation. I asked for guidance and strength. I noticed that in order to receive his help, I had to trust him. It took me some time to grow that trust, but when I started trusting him I saw the ways to change the situations I was in. What I'm trying to say is, you need to be open to change. Say you're stuck in a burning building. You can scream for help and the firemen will come. But if you hold on to something they won't be able to help you out. Your past made you who you are today. It made you look at life the way you do. Your future is what will make you who you are then. Don't follow the same unsatisfying routine because that's all you know. Do what makes you happy. Become who you want to be. Growing as a person means dealing with your problems and learning from them. Someone gave me the advice once to ask myself 'why is this bothering me so much?' And if I knew the answer say 'interesting, now how can I fix it?' If you look at it that way, it becomes a little easier. If you don’t deal with your problems, your walls will just rebuild themselves with the bricks you never got rid of. You don’t want to stay in this position, right? You want to grow and leave your trust issues behind. In order to be happy we’ll always have to work on ourselves. We can’t stop because we feel good. If we do, the good feeling we have then, won’t last. Working on yourself is hard. Because we are constantly criticizing ourselves. We need to find a way around the criticism. We can, if we want to (and there is something that tells me that we all want to). Please, let me know what you think. Share your experiences in the comments.
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AuthorMy passion is writing. I started writing stories when I was only 6 years old and I still do it today. Blogging is something I've been wanting to do for a long time, so here we are. Archives
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