I came across something where someone said "Are you healed, in repair or still broken from your last situation? Are you ready for a new chapter?"
She didn't ask me directly so I didn't owe her an answer. I owed it to myself to think about it. In the context I knew she meant relationship rather than situation but the question fits where ever you want it to. So am I? Am I healed from my last relationship? Am I healed from the situations I've been in? I'd like to think so. I'm well on my way. I'm no longer broken. I've healed from a lot of things. I'm able to think about past situations without feeling the pain that came with it; without feeling anger or resentment. That's how I know I'm healed. But there are things that still hurt. My past relationship for example. I'm no longer in pain and I don't hate him (anymore). But the fact that I'm now constantly confronted with the girl he cheated on me with... that annoys me. Even that doesn't hurt anymore but it doesn't feel good either. She probably has no idea and I want to keep it that way. But that's how I knew that I'm still in repair. Healing takes time. Don't expect to be healed the week after something broke you down. I wrote my process down, I'm glad I did because now that I've healed from a lot, I can go back and actually see that it wasn't always how it is today. I am glad that I took the time to heal. before I just wanted to get it over with, that never worked. Are you healed, in repair or broken? The thing with that question is that it makes you think. If you never think about it, how do you realize that there's still work to do? If your roof is leaking but you never go up to the attic, how do you know there's a leak? You have to go up there and check, you'll have to look at the leak and study it before you can do something about it. That's also what you have to do about the cracks in your heart. Study them and find the root of the pain and then repair it. Please share your thoughts and comments below or send me an email via my contact page. Talk to me on Twitter/Facebook or Instagram--> links in the sidebar. Spending time on healing yourself is the best way to ever investment your time!
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AuthorMy passion is writing. I started writing stories when I was only 6 years old and I still do it today. Blogging is something I've been wanting to do for a long time, so here we are. Archives
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